The June-ing of my Family
It seems like June is the time of year when I wax sentimental about my kids. And this year is no exception for this ole Mama. June 11 was Adam's 27th birthday and I was honored that he wanted to and was able to spend it here at home. I even marked the occasion by calling in sick to work ("mental health day" for the stressed out mental health worker) to spend some extra time with him. For some reason, to have a child that is 27 makes me sound really, really old. I don't feel old, mind you, but it struck me that 27 is way older than 26.
The next event, and the BIG one, was June 24th, Hannah's 22nd birthday. Eli proposed marriage on Torne Mountain in New Jersey, and she accepted. I knew this was coming, but having it official and being able to tell people threw me into a whole new realm. Someone's mother in law. Luckily, I had two great role models, so I hope I will excel at this, too. It's not that I worry one bit about their compatibility, love or the undeniable destiny that brought them together in Macomb, IL. The piece holding back my enthusiasm just the teensiest bit is that they aren't established in jobs or with money. Weddings can be expensive, and I'm uncertain what the plan is. I definitely believe too much emphasis is placed on weddings and not enough on marriages in our society generally, but I know these two have their heads on straight and we'll all make it work.
June 30th Cal turned 21, another milestone for the baby of the family. He was with us for a short vacation in Western New York, and I was able to drive him back to Normal with a few of his buddies from Macomb on his birthday. He wanted to celebrate in his college town and bring together his old and new friends. I figured I better put some food in their stomachs before they hit the bars, so I took Nick, Nick, Matt, and Cal to Panera for an early dinner. I felt rather small amongst these four hulking college boys. When did they stop swimming in their Little League jerseys and turn into men?
And so another June has passed and I am amazed and prouder than ever of these three young men. Before I know it another June will be here and I will have that daughter I always wanted.
The next event, and the BIG one, was June 24th, Hannah's 22nd birthday. Eli proposed marriage on Torne Mountain in New Jersey, and she accepted. I knew this was coming, but having it official and being able to tell people threw me into a whole new realm. Someone's mother in law. Luckily, I had two great role models, so I hope I will excel at this, too. It's not that I worry one bit about their compatibility, love or the undeniable destiny that brought them together in Macomb, IL. The piece holding back my enthusiasm just the teensiest bit is that they aren't established in jobs or with money. Weddings can be expensive, and I'm uncertain what the plan is. I definitely believe too much emphasis is placed on weddings and not enough on marriages in our society generally, but I know these two have their heads on straight and we'll all make it work.
June 30th Cal turned 21, another milestone for the baby of the family. He was with us for a short vacation in Western New York, and I was able to drive him back to Normal with a few of his buddies from Macomb on his birthday. He wanted to celebrate in his college town and bring together his old and new friends. I figured I better put some food in their stomachs before they hit the bars, so I took Nick, Nick, Matt, and Cal to Panera for an early dinner. I felt rather small amongst these four hulking college boys. When did they stop swimming in their Little League jerseys and turn into men?
And so another June has passed and I am amazed and prouder than ever of these three young men. Before I know it another June will be here and I will have that daughter I always wanted.